I’m ready to hold you steady. I don’t know if i’m truly ready. For all the things that come with the thought of and the attempt to make love. Can I make my love last long? Can I make my love strong without external help? I do not currently understand exactly why men put so much emphasis on this “pressure to perform”. I believe we have plenty to worry about. I personally never understood why we have come to focus on this one aspect of being a man? We can be violent emotional creatures that can be so hurt by this 2 to 10 second moment in time. It is now money involved on stroking ego’s. Old & young do what they can to cum strong, stay long, keep that hard on. We experience ed or premature ejac. Yet we continue to look back. For everything we are going to be good at. We have to properly prepare for even it’s something you want to be exceptional at. Yes even proper gratification, love satisfaction. We can’t also have the nerve to complain about negative reactions. When we haven’t put the work in. Understand if we truly have a problem or if we have just left ourselves open to what the world has afforded us. We can truly shape our outcomes… 

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