5 – Speaking In Code


I understand when you start speaking in code…

“What! … You did this to me…”

That’s you blaming me for making you the biggest freak you could be.

“You want some a your liquor tonight”

You want me to go deep, spank you and last all night.

“I want you to make love to me”

No hard fucking… You want me to finger you to make you cum.

You need me to play in dat pussy; like someone told me to get it done… and to finish…

you have, to have me on top looking in your eyes and hitting it slow… Until i let go.

“We need to go to a hotel”

You wanna get some good fucking in, so after we finish just a simple rub of my fingers can make you cum again…

“I wanna taste you”

Your gunna suck my dick like you making love to it.

“It don’t stay on anyway”

That’s you asking me why i buy you lingerie…

“I`m ready to do my favorite”

You want me to put it in your ass… That’s just your low-key way to ask!

“Oh God”

Your about to peak…

“Da. Da. Da…. Da”

You forgot how to speak…

“Oh Shit!”

Damn… that’s good

“Damn… That`s good”

Does really mean, Damn… That`s good.

“Fuck”

Your about tapped out…

I just felt like sharing…😍🥰😘

© Da Absentee 2010 revised 2024

*****

As Always…

Stay Positive!

9 – Happy Forever


Happy… Forever…

When I first sat down to write this I thought “Oh this is going to be easy!” All I have to do is tell my thoughts to the world and wish them a happy life.

Then it hit me “When you say it like that..” It seems easy enough, but to actually pick and assemble the best set of words and thoughts to say all of that in like 3 minutes. That’s when it gets a little bit harder. How could I… I mean really grasp what I wanted to say.

Praise, Acknowledgement, Family, Commitment and Love in a couple of paragraphs. How could I assure everyone who reads this; to let them know that through the trials, hard times and just life in general; that marriage is a good decision for both parties, that this is how it is meant to be. That “Love can conquer all”  it just needs respect & reverence to keep it in line. To be able to tell newlyweds that this is a symbol, a contract, unyielding and completely binding. A true test of forever.

Some people could never share and discuss their lives with friends like they can family. Now when I say family, I mean there’s no way you can deny this person of being who they are to you. When you say loyal, supportive, stubborn, a down right pain in the ….,  someone to never skimp words and always tell you when your wrong or right, stand by you in a fight. To always be there even if you can’t see them, just like the stars at night. You can always depend on them to be who he or she is and to follow through.

I know sometimes; more importantly in today’s world, that this can turn into a fling or some disillusionment. It doesn’t matter if it’s your one & only marriage or your 5th. If it is truly for the right reason and it is a friend you truly believe you can spend your life with. Do it! We (humans) need companions to fulfill life’s purpose.

Even in my life the concept had to be reinitiated. Parts of my life had to be stripped and reset. I still believe it’s a good idea.

Individuals that take these steps, fulfilling centuries of mankind trying to come together for a definitive purpose. To finally see them coming together to make a statement in front of their family and friends. Where they make history with a rite of passage and celebration. To hold each other so dear and close. This was always down the road, and everyone here knows that this is not the easy way out. So as these and many more of the memories to come and linger on for years I wish the world a strong and healthy life.

Marriage is dedication, the battling of life together. It is poetry. It is love songs. The union can be dreams. Reality and fantasy… Bonded, together… In my opinion…

Happy… Forever…

As Always…

Stay Positive!

0 – A Way Of Thinking


Crabs In A Bucket Mentality

Often used to describe social situations where one person is trying to better themself and others in the community attempt to pull them back down.

As a people we see this all too often. It can be applied to so many areas of life. Instead of trying to build each other up we constantly pull and put each other down. Instead of using our experiences and knowledge to help be a footing to help others, so that they can get a leg up; we shoot them in foot!

A modern day syndrome of negativity where we always hate and discourage one another is just staggering. Friends envy friends, family plotting against family. In all truth family members are probably the most guilty of the ‘crab mentality’. The reason being they are usually the closest to you, have more access to you and will be the first to see any progress on a small or larger scale. Which they will be ready to judge, poke and dis-member.

In the workplace we do not work as a cohesive unit, we steal ideas, act as whistleblowers and discourage forward thinking simply because our thinking is that we should be better off than a co-worker. This then leads to ‘double work‘ less productivity, less morale and quality of work then falters.

As a society we have inadvertently set up a standard “hate policy”. That any and everything that is not set with the ‘norm’ or is not aligned with our way of thinking and understanding that “If it is not for us. Then it must be against us.”

I believe that everyone in their lives would have been told at one point or another that it was “ok, to share” . Something in-stilled so early in life should have had a better hold in our core way of thinking because it is (I think) the simplest way of thinking to defeat ‘crab mentality’.

We come to points in our lives where sometimes we have to be that ‘co-star’. We have to fight the urge and longing to be the ones in the limelight. We have to become the person on the side doing the work and doing more, the behind the scenes that never gets the proper credit . These are the type of people, the inspirations, the muses and the supports who do more by playing their position for the better good.

We have become ok with being opposites and pulling in the other direction. We have set up a constant negative. That women must sleep around to get ahead. Everyone is looking for the quick buck, that no one wants to work hard anymore or he must be selling drugs way of thinking.

Who is to blame? We only have ourselves to blame.

We as a people should attempt to help each other progress, set goals to improve ourselves which in turn, improve our surroundings which will improve others around us.

We need to strive to be a platform to help each other up and propel from. So that when one of us arrives to a new level, we always turn around and bring the ones we have surpassed. That the cycle of help, support, encouragement and goodwill continues on…

2 – I Wanted To Say Something


Don’t let this world; or anyone play with your head.
That includes you…
Don’t let the world or others; influence how you see yourself
.
Stop shunning yourself;
doubting yourself
no one should love you
more than you love yourself
.
Sleep is uncomfortable
Turning is not the same as change
You are not unreasonable
.
Right now… You are irreplaceable
Someone knows your beautiful
Skin color, blemishes, stretch marks and dark spots;
The thin, thick or in between you
No matter how you look
someone has love to give you
.
Somewhere
the only thing to get is love in return
Stop asking yourself
Who would, who could
love me, want me
.
Feel secure in you
Even after months of dedicated work
On being a better you
Do you say to yourself?
“I love you”
.
You are monetary
Unavailable
You are stability
The world’s falling apart
Yet in it your insurance and safety
.
You’re sanctuary
Days run smooth; make this world make sense
Never give you up, know what you have
Comprehend what’s worth fighting for
.
You worry about being a mom
Being better than yours
Loving better than yours
Letting her know you love her…
She knows
.
Just be you
Live with you
Live with this life you made
Its yours after all
.
You are
independent, strong…
.
You can leave a legacy.
Working hard alone is never wrong….
.
© Da Absentee 2016 revised 2024
.
As Always…
Stay Positive!

5 – For Your Body (T)


I thirst…  to touch your body
and taste your fold
and feel your tremors whilst you unfold
tell me the things to tame your heart
open the gates that hold treasure tart
tell the technique
to make our tune… our union
an erotic treat
aim to thrill in totality
teach me to make you drip from anticipation
so when I brave the river
I feel, tease, taste and see
opaque and translucent juices run
experience multiple orgasms
tour your frame with tender kisses
loose and stiff tongue
toil at a love
that I love to be a part of
tempt me at every twist and turn
so I thirst..
to touch your body
and taste your fold
and feel your tremors
whilst you unfold…

©  Da Absentee 2011 revised 2024

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I wrote this trying to convey how a man  would feel craving the one they love. Being in the moment and the experience. While using as many words that start with the letter “T”.  I ended up using 30 + t words.
Checkout the link below to hear the audio:
As Always…
Stay Positive!

1 – Education Not For Everyone?


2024 – This post was originally time stamped 01042012 – The year is 2024. I have helped facilitate 2 bachelor’s degree, in the middle of facilitating another 4 year degree. I want to add that because of the pursuit for “more”, the people I call my children are more “well rounded” than I was at their ages. Those statements are not groundbreaking. However it makes me proud to say i did more for them than my parents did for me. The thinking in this post is still valid in my life. I wish our world the best in the future.

Education can be one of the ways for our communities and people to rise above today’s current standards. We as people should use the resource of education to help overcome all aspects of negative world happenings. We have to use it as a driving force that would make available to us the common luxuries and securities that any normal person would want.

“Knowledge is Power” this is so true but I have also heard one to many times over the years that “College is Overrated”.  After coming of age and the positioning myself in this world, that statement is now and forever… wrong!  In today’s world having the opportunity to attend an institution of higher education and thinking is quite possibly the only way to travel the path of life.

Having grown and developed at a disadvantage. I took the example of my parents and ran with it. They themselves never attending college but being rather more successful than most with lists of accomplishments that could be considered above average.Yet… they to have fallen. They could not properly sustain their success even though being more than capable.

In today’s ever-changing, technological, light-speed global economy we should strive to help position ourselves and our offspring to heights well beyond our own undertakings. Some of us have grown up in environments where covering the bills was considered a way of life.  Just “Having Enough” will do and “I’m a Survivor” and I will “Make due with What I have”. Not saying these forms of thinking is wrong or neglectful but do we not want more from ourselves and our lives?

The less or uneducated man is least likely to succeed. Just a high school diploma to progress is not enough. For our young people to have any chance of a healthy, fulfilling and comfortable lifestyle we have to educate them!

I think of my nieces and nephews when I say “I wish I could afford to send them to school to better themselves.” 1 or 2 may get scholarships, toil away at the system and turnout alright, but I want more for them.

We as people have been victimized for many years, this should not put us in a place where we have no desire to better ourselves just because. We have to instill in our up and coming generations that higher education is a necessity. That they are incomplete without it and it will make them a more contributing individual to society as a whole. They can never know who they are in the appropriate timeline unless they engage the muscle of the mind so that it can afford them to be all they can be.

Is it not forward thinking and reasoning outside the common place where inventors have excelled even the inventions and innovations out of a basic need still needed to be perfected; by an educated mind.  Blueprints, mass production, the internet… was not conjured up by the simple-minded. It took know how and education to bring these things to light .

As parents and role models we have the “privilege” to imprint the future inhabitants of our world who will undoubtedly control and or play a major part in our own well-being. We being the elders who will one day depend on these/our young to maintain and facilitate our coming and goings. We should hold the responsibility gravely and ensure these future leaders are the best at what they do. We have to educate the young people and remind them that “failure to educate” is not option to die from.

In exploring this entry, I have found myself at a point of explanation. I know my writing has focused on college education. This does not mean that I do not believe in the search for knowledge in other venues and streams. I believe this standard should start from the person on the floor to the guy up in the office.

Examples:

Hairdressers: Should take some form of accounting and business administration courses so they can have a full background to make their business profitable and able to sustain. Knowing not every professional stylist is going to open their own establishment but in the event they decide to. They will be ready or equipped to tackle the endeavor.

Education by definition:: (the act or process of imparting or acquiring general knowledge, developing the powers of reasoning and judgment, and generally of preparing oneself or others intellectually for mature life.)

The definition is what we should strive for…

As Always…

Stay Positive!

© Da Absentee 2024

6 – Exhale


dplogo

I`ve been waiting and wanting
for u to engage me
i`ve waited and used control
the heat causes me to perspire

But time wont let me exhale
it goes without fail
u know I need u close
to keep it up

I need it I want it
I can’t hold it anymore
I need your touch
to exhale like before

© Dual Perspective 2011

As Always…
Stay Positive!

0 – Searching


A lonely ride…
most keep to themselves
keep what they are thinking
on the inside.

Imagine…
fine and dandy
one step to insanity
five steps from normal.

Wishing…
for good fortune
being needs to be nurtured
cared for; developed.

Clarity…
let go without a whim
unlock from within
bound in separation.

Few take this ride
tell what they have inside
can you think straight
battling through your test of faith

only time will tell
your tale
we don’t know
if evil or good will prevail…

© Da Absentee 2012

As Always…

Stay Positive!

 

5 – Pressure To Perform


I’m ready to hold you steady. I don’t know if i’m truly ready. For all the things that come with the thought of and the attempt to make love. Can I make my love last long? Can I make my love strong without external help? I do not currently understand exactly why men put so much emphasis on this “pressure to perform”. I believe we have plenty to worry about. I personally never understood why we have come to focus on this one aspect of being a man? We can be violent emotional creatures that can be so hurt by this 2 to 10 second moment in time. It is now money involved on stroking ego’s. Old & young do what they can to cum strong, stay long, keep that hard on. We experience ed or premature ejac. Yet we continue to look back. For everything we are going to be good at. We have to properly prepare for even it’s something you want to be exceptional at. Yes even proper gratification, love satisfaction. We can’t also have the nerve to complain about negative reactions. When we haven’t put the work in. Understand if we truly have a problem or if we have just left ourselves open to what the world has afforded us. We can truly shape our outcomes… 

© Da Absentee 2012 revised 2024

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9 – Levels


megaphone

Knock, knock knocking
faint
can you hear it, the echoes
because its hollow inside
empty and not holding
like a kite which glides

knock, knock knocking
mellow
it permeates the fleshy eardrum skin
can you hear the beat from within
adhesive to bass and strings

knock, knock knocking…
Normal
like dancing to speech
it is reserved but always in reach
I am listening
I am your student
please teach

knock, knock knocking
loud
I need you to get here
excuses at this point is nothing I want to hear
I know you know better
so do so with care

knock, knock knocking
screaming
when I see you
your dead
you hear…

© Da Absentee 2011 revised 2024

As Always…

Stay Positive!

9 – Your Course


Clox Da Absentee

Is the fault really yours
should you have seen, known all the signs
should you have recognized
that they needed more than you
more than one
more than you could have ever provided

don’t be crazy to believe
let someone tell you, It’s all your fault
is it your fault?
don`t know…
you shouldn’t care
because as of right now
that kind of thinking
will get you nowhere

they were damaged and bruised
that’s how they were received
that’s how they came to you
threats of life taking are numbing you
if that’s what they want
let them go ahead and do it already

only thing you do now
is wait, the waiting
you need more time
you need to take this into your own hands
force it down, elongate that spine

some will examine
some will say its shitty
some will call it pity
you were  trapped by vicinity
you couldn’t help
if you didn’t know how
can’t help if you don’t intervene
somehow their weak
they can’t move past hence
the past is constantly kicking their ass
if not clipped
they will attempt flight
which will be their last

You should be on a mission to cleanse
no more pretend
mind may be racing
without seeing an end
it’s a longer road than desired
but it’s yours
your monster, your friend
uncalculated unrestricted
your unconquerable end

© Da Absentee 2012

As Always…

Stay Positive!